Hello, you. And you, and you. I’ve missed you. I hope every last one of you took a big fat break over the holidays. If you didn’t get a break, please know you deserved one whether it happened or not. If you were in my hood I’d invite you in for a hot cup of tea and make you put your feet up, because man, last year was hard. Take a load off, relaxers are welcome here.
So what did you do over the holidays? We took a big fat break and a road trip to Spokane to visit a dear college friend of ours (my husband and I met in college so we have a lot of mutual friends from those days) and had such a great time. I really don’t like traveling during the holidays and had low expectations for a great Christmas, but I’m telling you, sometimes a road trip to a faraway place is just what you need. We hung out as a family because there wasn’t anything else to do BUT be together. I didn’t putter around the house cleaning and organizing, and I didn’t open my laptop once. That wouldn’t have happened at home.… >> find out more…
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So, fat talk. Where are we with that?
This time of year can be especially toxic when it comes to body loathing. So many treats! Holiday bloat, ugh. Whatever, it happens to the best of us, but it doesn’t have to turn in to a war on your psyche if your pants are a little snug after a few days of indulging. If you’ve got some weight loss or health goals for the New Year, you have my full support. Get healthy, go on and be your best self, whatever that looks like! But do it the right way. Don’t cut yourself where it can hurt the most. The answer lies is in positivity. There is nothing about self-hate that can motivate a person to being happy with who they see in the mirror. I think back on some of the things I’ve said about myself and to myself and I’m horrified. We are our own worst critics
63% of women surveyed admitted to engaging in fat talk at least once a week and I’m willing to bet that in truth, that number is even higher. Disturbing, right? I’m guilty, I’ve done it, and it … >> find out more…
Friday news roundup time! It’s been a couple of weeks since my last Friday News Roundup, and so much has happened since then. How are you, my pretties? December has flown by, and also ARE WE DONE YET? I have mixed feelings about this time of year. It’s my favorite but so riddled with guilt and stress. I need to figure out how to rid myself of both, they’re counterproductive to happiness, and it’s the HAPPIEST time of year. Happy Holidays, Mazel Tov, Happy Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Merry Christmas, and happy-almost-new-year’s-eve!
What’s going on? Well, so glad you asked. There’s a lot of news to share.
- Russia’s president, the
honorable humanitarian terrorist Vladimir Putin released political prisoner Mikhail Khodorkovsky today, out of the goodness of his heart due to (my personal opinion) the heat he’s feeling from the international community prior to this Winter’s 2014 Olympics. Oh Vladi, you’re such a softie.
- I have two giveaways currently on Petit Elefant, and you want a part of this action. Two $100 gift card giveaways. Guys! It’s the holidays, and everyone needs cash. Thanks Ricola + MiniTime.
- Lindsey made some tasty wassail to die for. Grab the recipe + make some
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It’s been a while since I’ve done a What’s in Your Purse Series post, but it’s time again. Do you miss it? I kind of love the purse series and I really miss seeing what’s in your purses! Should we get it started again? I’ll be first.
This is my purse right now. The only thing I edited out was an extra huge stash of lip products. For reals, I had an extra 5 or 6 lip glosses and lipsticks and just thought it might be a little excessive for this photo. I always carry around too much makeup in my purse, it’s just part of who I am. You never know when you might need red lipstick. Or hot pink! What if you’re out and you need hot pink? I mean, that’s a worrisome situation and I’m prepared for any potential beauty disaster.
Here’s what you’d find in my purse this very minute, if you dumped it all out on your living room floor.
What’s in My Purse Series Winter Edition
- my wallet
- car keys, with a gym membership I haven’t used in
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The Amazon Kindle has been on my Christmas wish list since the beginning of time. I mean, not really, because Amazon only came out with the device in 2007. Even then, no one could get their hands on a Kindle because they were such a hot seller. Plus? The first generation Amazon Kindle was $399.
The Amazon Kindle of yore was groundbreaking, but it didn’t hold a candle to even the smallest tablet now. In fact, the 2013 Amazon Kindle Fire is practically a computer (it is) you can take on the road (minus all the headache). They tablets get bigger, better, faster every year, and this year’s Kindle is no exception.
For a super reasonable $139.00, you can be the owner of your very own Amazon Kindle Fire (HD!) with 8GB. For $20 more you get 16GB.
That’s a hefty amount of space on a tiny, teeny, little lightweight tablet. What really kills me though, is what this baby can do.
Here’s the short list of all the fabulous from the Amazon Kindle Fire 2013:
- Access to a billionty and one books, (not a real number) use the Kindle owners’ lending library of 400,000 titles (whak?!)
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My wassail recipe is one of my favorite holiday beverages. Not only does it taste great, it makes your house smell fabulous as it’s simmering away on the stove. My recipe for cranberry wassail is one that everyone in my family really loves and differs a bit from other wassail recipes. I like to mix a few different kinds of fruit juice – cranberry, apple, orange, lemon and grape. This version is non-alcoholic, but you could certainly add some liqueur or wine for a warm, boozy adult beverage. The other great thing? It’s also really good chilled. I’ve served this recipe with our Christmas morning brunch for years and it’s always a hit.
Here’s what you need for this recipe: orange juice, cranberry-apple juice, one orange, fresh lemon juice, a spice packet (see below), fresh sliced ginger (not pictured) and white grape juice (below), and cane sugar (optional, not pictured.)
The spice packet is the most important part of the wassail recipe. I place whole spices into a few layers of cheesecloth and tie it with twine. You don’t have to do this, but it makes it easier to remove the spices when it’s time to serve the … >> find out more…
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2013 is drawing to a close (thank the heavens above) but you still have time to get in a few good reads before the new year. In fact, I have it on good authority that you’ve been a good boy / girl this year, and if you ask nicely St. Nick might give you a good book for Christmas (or whichever wonderful holiday you celebrate). See, I have Santa’s cell phone number + email address, and I’m making daily reports of good (and bad) behavior. As far as my children know, they’re basically on parole until Christmas day. I’m the parole officer, and the check-ins are hourly instead of monthly.
Same goes for you guys. I have Santa spies everywhere.
I do!. Sort of. Not really.
But even if you were naughty, I’d still give you good book recommendations because nothing turns someone from the dark side quite like a good book. Stepping into someone else’s shoes (metaphorically, at least) for a little while, can really give a girl (or guy) some perspective on life. You might even get out of your parole officer visits early … >> find out more…
Fat talk is something 93 percent of women engage in, every day. NINETY-THREE percent of us are talking about how we wish we could just lose those extra 15 pounds, how we don’t fit in our skinny jeans anymore, about how our necks are drooping (maybe that’s my own personal demon). Lots of us make belittling comments about ourselves under our breath:
‘I look so fat in this.‘
‘Ug! I’m so disgusting!’ ‘
‘I used to have an amazing rack but now I’m so saggy. I want a boob job.’
Take stock and think about it: how often do you make negative body image remarks to yourself or others. If you’re thinking it, you’re emulating it, so that counts too. But guess what? It doesn’t have to be that way, and you and I are going to be the solution to end fat talk NOW.
Like, right now.
I engaged in all sorts of self loathing in high school. From terrible comments about my: (fill in the blank) _________ , to a self destructive eating disorder and negative self talk (the stuff you keep inside your own brain).
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It’s party season, wahoo! Aren’t you so excited? For all the party-town, fancy-dancy parties of the season? I’m not much of a cocktail party goer, but I love the idea of dressing other people for the holidays. I’m more of a sweats + heating blanket + Benedict Cumberbatch
(movies) on the couch kind of girl. With some hot chai tea in hand, of course.
But YOU, you are a fancy party-goer! And I have 5 short party dresses for the holidays just for you; because I love you. I want you to be the best dressed girl at the big bash (whatever that might be) between now and January whatever.
The hemline of this party dress is short and the feel is vintage, but the accessories are totally modern. Ready for a mature lady and her trademark legs.
Ice Queen, in silver and black with perfect winter accessories including a crown (!) statement ring. This queen is ready to party.
A twenty-something city girl with a tutu hemline and chic accessories from the golden chandelier earrings and black + gold statement ring all the way down to the black bootie
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